How to support survivors: -believe what they are telling you -ask what kind of support would be helpful -offer whatever kind of support you are able to give -back them if they are seeking accountability from their abuser
What not to do: -don’t ask for details about what happened -don’t play ‘devils advocate’ -don’t pretend as if they never mentioned it and continue to treat the abuser as if nothing has changed
How to support abusers: -show them that you think abuse is not acceptable -encourage them to seek help -let them know that the survivors needs must be prioritized
What not to do: -don’t enable them by acting as if nothing has happened -don’t prioritize their needs over the survivors -don’t support them in making spaces inaccessible for the survivor
Instead of caramel apples this Halloween, melt jolly ranchers in a 250 degree oven for around 5 minutes, then pour over your apples. Add edible glitter for the sparkling space effect!
this is kind of genius
how would u bite into that tho????????????
It depends on how hot you melt (or boil) the sugar to. For example, caramel is usually heated to 245-250 degrees F while something like a lollypop (or a regular jolly rancher) is heated to 300-310 degrees F